Your own AI

Connect Claude, ChatGPT or Grok.

Let your own AI assistant use your Diarised network. Ask who you know at a company, who could introduce you or for a briefing before a meeting. You choose what it may read and do, for each role. You can undo what it changed.

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Sign in to Diarised first: your assistant sends you there to choose what it may do.

What you can ask

Ask in your own words.

Your assistant answers from your Diarised network. It uses only the parts you let it read. A few things people ask:

“Who do I know at Acme?”

It lists the people in your network at that company, with their role there.

“Who am I due to catch up with?”

It lists the people you wanted to keep in touch with whose time has come.

“Add the person I met today.”

It adds them to your network and checks first whether they're already there.

“Who could introduce me to someone there?”

It finds people you know who know them, at most two steps away. On Pro.

“Brief me on my next meeting.”

It tells you who the guest is and when you last met, from what you let it read. On Pro.

“What have I promised people?”

It lists your open promises, soonest first. On Pro.

“Whose birthday is coming up?”

It lists birthdays and other dates in the weeks ahead. On Pro.

“Note that we spoke today.”

It records the conversation, so your next catch-up counts from today. On Pro.

Step one

Your Diarised address for agents

Every assistant connects to the same address. You'll paste it into your assistant's settings.

https://mcp.diarised.si/mcp

It's also in Diarised, under Settings, Connected agents, with a Copy button.

Step by step

Claude

  1. On claude.ai or in the Claude app on your computer, open Settings, then Connectors.
  2. Choose Add custom connector. Name it Diarised and paste your address.
  3. Choose Add, then Connect. Claude opens Diarised, where you choose what it may do.

Once added, it works in Claude on your phone too.

On a Claude Team or Enterprise plan, an owner adds custom connectors first.

Step by step

ChatGPT

  1. On a computer, open chatgpt.com and go to Plugins.
  2. Choose +, then Add custom MCP server. Name it Diarised and paste your address.
  3. Connect it. ChatGPT opens Diarised, where you choose what it may do.

It's added on a computer; you can then use it in the ChatGPT app.

On Plus or Pro you may need to turn on developer mode in ChatGPT's settings first. On Business or Enterprise, an admin must allow custom servers.

Step by step

Grok

  1. Open grok.com/connectors.
  2. Choose New Connector, then Custom. Name it Diarised and paste your address.
  3. Connect it. Grok opens Diarised, where you choose what it may do.

On Grok Business, an admin adds it first.

Anything else

Another assistant

  1. In your assistant's settings, look for Connectors, or Custom MCP server.
  2. Add one with your address. It must support MCP with sign-in (OAuth).
  3. Connect it. Your assistant opens Diarised, where you choose what it may do.

If it opens Diarised and says "We can't confirm who made this agent", only allow it if you started connecting it yourself, just now.

Then

Choose what it may do, then ask

Diarised opens and asks first: only allow it if you started connecting it yourself, just now. Then choose, for all your roles or for each one, what it may read: names and work, contact details, personal details, your meetings and how close you are to people. Choose too whether it may add and change things.

  • “Who do I know at Acme?”
  • “Who am I due to catch up with?”
  • “Brief me on my next meeting.”

If your app looks different, look for Connectors or Custom MCP server in its settings.

The limits

What it can never do

An assistant can never delete or merge people, change your settings, see your calendars or send anything.

On Starter, one assistant can read names and work. It can add people and notes and change people's details and tags. On Pro, up to five, with everything: briefings before a meeting, who can introduce you and, if you tick it, how close you are to people and who your VIPs are.

Diarised shows you what it read and changed. You can undo a change for 30 days, or disconnect it at once. What Diarised can and can't see

Your network, in your own assistant.

14 days free with everything in Pro. No card needed. From R299 a month after that.

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